My friend and I are trying to join the same custom server, and we have the exact same filters, but I can't see the same servers that he sees. In fact, I can only see a small amount of servers at a time. Then I hit refresh, and I get a different set of servers, can be anywhere from 3 to like 30 at a time.

Basically I have to spam refresh for atleast 5 minutes straight until hopefully the right server shows itself.

What is up with this? Its game breaking for me, I don't even play anymore. Would really like to fix this.