My friend and I are trying to connect to each other to play a private multiplayer game via Steam like we always do - but it keeps resetting the countdown to finding an opponent... I’m using a PC via Steam like I always do, and my friend is on Mac and on Steam... we can each connect to an official online server - but when it's just the two of us in a private league of our own - it just runs out and then the finding an opponent counter resets - 299 seconds - it does this three or four times and then tries to connect to Cabalvision OL league and/or Linga Franca Open Saison 20-something...? I have no idea how to resolve the issue....could you please help?